Make love, not divorce

 It's spring, the flowers are coming into bloom and men and women of every age are reserving the day. The day that they become one in holy matrimony. But most of these people are in such a rush they forget to grow up. "Marriage are more likely to last longer when people marry at an older age, have higher education and earn more," the article Divorce rates increase if you're under twenty-five. There is no race to get married and if you find yourself in a situation where it seems like a must-have, you need to check your motives.

 Religion aside, you can be with someone and have sexual relations without making it such a shameful act. People often use this as a motive for marriage, as a way to satisfy the needs or urges but it makes so sense if this is a motive for marriage. If you plan to get married, the motive is important so rethink your motive and I suggest waiting. 

 Females and males have different ages in which the are considered mature or "all put together." Females being 18 and males being 21 but that does not mean you are ready for the responsible of marriage. "Sixty percent of marriages for couples between the ages 20 and 25 ends in divorce," that's more than half and should be taken into account.

Time is essential when it comes to your intended spouse. People are dynamic, constantly changing. The person you thought you knew inside and out could change in a manner of minutes. This is why when it comes to marriage, we should take our time with the person or not get married at all. 

 My father was married twice and both ended because of the horrible reason behind it. The first marriage was when he was 21 on the account of well, me. Immediately after they took the alter. He did not know this woman and it was merely a case of too much alcohol and no protection. Because of this, he's where he is today. Barely any college on account of his kids and TIME. Marriage is a death to youth, freedom, and ability to do as one pleases.  Marriage makes you one with your spouse, the time for childish dreams and freedom are over. His second marriage started and ended within months. This one was not a shotgun wedding, though, it was a case of "love", which is maybe sweet but its also stupid. 

 I do not believe in love and I think marriage is merely a scam to use on your tax returns but in the end, marriage is a choice where we live so choose wisely.